Beyond ‘Anxious’ and ‘Avoidant’: Understanding Attachment in Real Life
Lauren Milo, LMHC Lauren Milo, LMHC

Beyond ‘Anxious’ and ‘Avoidant’: Understanding Attachment in Real Life

It’s no secret that attachment theory is inviting. The idea that one’s childhood could explain the way we find love in partnership appeals to the masses because of its linear approach to connection. Words like anxious or avoidant can be thrown out easily, especially in social media to explain how a partner acts or perhaps, why they don’t act the way we’d like them to

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Dating App Burnout: Protecting Your Mental Health in the Digital Dating World
Alexis J.S. Sturnick Alexis J.S. Sturnick

Dating App Burnout: Protecting Your Mental Health in the Digital Dating World

What's particularly interesting about 2025 is that they're seeing a significant shift in how people, especially women, approach digital dating. Nearly two-thirds of women report being more honest with themselves and refusing to compromise on their needs. This isn't just about having high standards—it's about recognizing your worth in a landscape that can sometimes feel overwhelming.

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Rethinking Our Relationship with Alcohol: A Compassionate Conversation for 2025
Alexis J.S. Sturnick Alexis J.S. Sturnick

Rethinking Our Relationship with Alcohol: A Compassionate Conversation for 2025

In 2025, the conversation about alcohol is evolving beyond simple labels of 'drinking' or 'not drinking.' With new health findings from the Surgeon General and growing cultural awareness, many are questioning their relationship with alcohol. This isn't about judgment or rigid rules - it's about understanding our choices and finding authentic ways to navigate a drinking-positive culture. Explore how to balance health awareness with self-compassion, understand common drinking patterns, and create meaningful changes that align with your personal wellbeing. Whether you're sober-curious, cutting back, or simply becoming more aware, this thoughtful guide offers practical insights for your unique journey.

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Home for the Holidays: Navigating Family Dynamics in Tense Times
Alexis J.S. Sturnick Alexis J.S. Sturnick

Home for the Holidays: Navigating Family Dynamics in Tense Times

Let's be real - going home for the holidays can be a mixed bag. Sure, there's the comfort of familiar faces and maybe some phenomenal home cooking. But for many of us, it also means stepping into a minefield of family dynamics, differing values, and this year, the added spice of rising political tensions. Fun times, right? … Hear us loudly when we say: Your feelings are valid, whatever they may be.

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The Dopamine Dilemma: Social Media's Impact on College Students' Mental Health
Alexis J.S. Sturnick Alexis J.S. Sturnick

The Dopamine Dilemma: Social Media's Impact on College Students' Mental Health

At the heart of our social media habits is the powerful neurotransmitter called dopamine. Often misunderstood as simply a "pleasure chemical," dopamine actually plays a crucial role in motivation, learning, and reward-seeking behavior. This connection between dopamine and social media use is a key factor in understanding dopamine addiction in the digital age.

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Spoons at Stake: The Hidden Costs of Medical Gaslighting for People with Chronic Illness(es)
Miriam Weinstein, LCSW Miriam Weinstein, LCSW

Spoons at Stake: The Hidden Costs of Medical Gaslighting for People with Chronic Illness(es)

"'You're in pain when trying to have an intimate evening with your husband? Have you tried drinking more wine?'

This is a real quote from a real medical provider to one of our clients experiencing a chronic illness of the pelvis.

Besides the obvious concerns that there are medical providers who may suggest imbibing alcohol as a substitute for digging more into a potentially complicated diagnosis, highlighting medical gaslighting is extremely important when talking about the effects it can have on mental health.

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The Mindful Professional: Simple Practices for Busy Lives
Alexis J.S. Sturnick Alexis J.S. Sturnick

The Mindful Professional: Simple Practices for Busy Lives

Deadlines, exams, meetings, and endless to-do lists. Not to mention maintaining a living space and keeping pets, plants, and/or additional humans alive! Does any of this chaos sound familiar? Whether you're navigating the corporate ladder or tackling your studies, locating moments of peace can feel like a challenge. But what if calm wasn't something you had to find, but something you could create? Let's explore how mindfulness, even when brief, can be a tool in your toolbox to use for staying centered…no matter what life throws your way.

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The Nuanced Art of Gratitude: Embracing Life's Full Spectrum
Alexis J.S. Sturnick Alexis J.S. Sturnick

The Nuanced Art of Gratitude: Embracing Life's Full Spectrum

You’re listening to a podcast your friend recommended that seemingly claims to have the answers to life’s greatest questions. Listening in for the first time, they begin speaking about 'practicing gratitude' and you immediately think: “Great, another buzzword.” The next “self-care,” if you will. You're not alone. The notion of practicing gratitude is all over the media right now: books, podcasts, articles, smartphone apps, and now on the Resilience Therapy blog! It's easy to dismiss the idea of practicing gratitude as pop psychology fluff, but there's more to it than meets the eye. Let’s get into it.

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Unlock the Convenience of Online Therapy: Mental Health Treatment with Less Barriers
Alexis J.S. Sturnick Alexis J.S. Sturnick

Unlock the Convenience of Online Therapy: Mental Health Treatment with Less Barriers

Whether it's cozied up on your living room couch, enjoying the serenity of your backyard, or any other familiar, calming environment you choose, virtual therapy allows you to engage in counseling from the spaces that make you feel most at peace. With virtual therapy, you have the flexibility to schedule appointments at times that seamlessly fit your life's natural rhythms, whether that's first thing in the morning, later in the evening after the kids are asleep, or whenever works best.

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